Lots of Grindr profiles, especially from younger guys, specify that they want to "Cuddle." I'm all for cuddling, especially at the end of the act, so I figured they meant "Cuddling afterwards...."
I had been trying to land this guy for nearly a year. He was a theater major at the University, short, stocky, with black hair and dark brown eyes. We chatted and chatted, discussing the minutiae of theatrical performances. I even went to the execrable Titanic because he asked me to.
But I couldn't seal the deal. It was like trying to coax a skittish little squirrel to accept a nut.
Eventually I got busy with other things, and turned my attention to guys who didn't take quite so much coaxing, and didn't talk to him online for months.
Then I saw on Grindr that he was 1200 feet away. He had moved to a new apartment about 3 blocks away. I said "Now there's no excuse for not inviting me over for cuddling."
A few days later he took me up on it. Out of nowhere: "I'm tired, I had a long day, I want to cuddle."
The full post, with nude photos and sexual content, is on Tales of West Hollywood.