In spite of my nostalgia-infused memories of West Hollywood as a paradise, it had some big problems. For one thing, it was completely segregated. Only 3% of its residents were black, 5% Asian, and 10% Hispanic (compared to Los Angeles in general, 10%, 11%, and 47%).
You rarely saw anyone black on the streets, and when you did, he was with a white guy, and being charged a hefty cover to get into the bar, or waiting extra-long for the server to notice him in the restaurant.
But this isn't a story about institutional racism and microaggressions. It's about a guy named Mario.
Nearly every day, I stopped into the Different Light Bookstore on Larrabee. I joked that I was moving the entire stock into my apartment.
And one day I saw Mario browsing in the theater section.
He was rather feminine, thin and willowy, wearing gold rings, bracelets, and necklaces -- an immediate turnoff. But he was shorter than me, dark skinned, with glasses that gave him a studious look. So when he approached me, started a conversation about gay literature, and invited me to dinner at the Greenery, I agreed.
The rest of the story is too risque for Boomer Beefcake and Bonding. You can read it on Tales of West Hollywood.
You rarely saw anyone black on the streets, and when you did, he was with a white guy, and being charged a hefty cover to get into the bar, or waiting extra-long for the server to notice him in the restaurant.
But this isn't a story about institutional racism and microaggressions. It's about a guy named Mario.
Nearly every day, I stopped into the Different Light Bookstore on Larrabee. I joked that I was moving the entire stock into my apartment.
And one day I saw Mario browsing in the theater section.
He was rather feminine, thin and willowy, wearing gold rings, bracelets, and necklaces -- an immediate turnoff. But he was shorter than me, dark skinned, with glasses that gave him a studious look. So when he approached me, started a conversation about gay literature, and invited me to dinner at the Greenery, I agreed.
The rest of the story is too risque for Boomer Beefcake and Bonding. You can read it on Tales of West Hollywood.